Busy in the Garden

Dig. Plant. Weed. Mulch. Fertilize. I’ve been busy in the garden these last few weeks as have the the plants themselves and the insects they attract. Here in garden zone 8a of Baltimore County, Maryland, nearly all of my roses boast buds accompanied by aphids, tiny bugs that enjoy sucking sap from a rosebud. In years past I have squished aphids or squirted them off, but I felt confident that the ladybugs that took up residence in my flower beds would eat their full of the aphid buffet soon enough. It’s believed ladybugs can eat 50 or more aphids in a single day. Sure enough, when I checked back a few days later, only this aphid lingered. Unless a pest is obliterating a plant, I tend to let nature do its thing or find other less severe options to mitigate pests. Last year, a praying mantis showed up (they eat just about any insect in range).

Speaking of life, I’m delighted to see everything I planted last year managed to resurface this year! A couple of hostas kept me in suspense as they just now broke ground (in mid-April) whereas others manifested in late March.

The side of the house is part shade which is why I planted several hostas as well as broke up one large hosta and transplanted five sections of the original in that shaded location. After a minor outdoor plumbing repair (where the sump pump drains) and adding river rock, I decided to plant a shrub known as ‘Golden Euonymus’ to hide the pipe that runs along the house as well as the gutter. When I purchased the house, it already had these golden-green shrubs that retain their foliage throughout the winter; so, I was familiar with their habitat and it was only $11 at Home Depot. Before planting the new shrub, however, I relocated a large hosta known as ‘Blue Angel’ by a foot or two to the left. I also added other hostas between a hydrangea bush and a reddish shrub aptly named ‘burning bush’. I also lined a sidewalk with brick for a cohesive look in the backyard that same Sunday last week and set up small trellises for my clematises to climb. One week later, my clematis has reached the top of the 4-foot trellises! As I said, my plants and I have been busy.

One of the ‘Golden Euonymus’ shrubs that was already established upon purchasing my home.

On Friday, a plant order arrived on my doorstep from Proven Winners which I quickly planted before the whipping winds consumed our region. I ordered 3 pink dianthus (they look like carnation mounds), 2 pink veronica speedwells, and 1 lavender. Last year, I planted several of Proven Winners’ lavender known as ‘Sweet Romance’ in one particular bed as a border. I intended on planting sweet alyssum, a dainty low-growing white flower, in between the lavendar but that never transpired. This year, I added the lavender that just arrived and staggered the pink dianthus between the lavender border (instead of my sweet alyssum idea from last year). My garden has a pink, purple, white, and yellow theme.

Meanwhile, the lamb’s ear I transplanted in the same bed a few weeks ago took without hesitation and my roses are busy cranking out buds. If you recall from an earlier post, I transplanted a rose known as ‘Earth Angel’ in early March and created a new flower bed for her. Like the transplanted lamb’s ear, it too established itself with no transplant shock. I clearly do not subscribe to the “wait to Mother’s Day myth” to plant or transplant. I figure if the temperatures dip, it’s easy enough to put a 5-gallon bucket, pot, or cloth over the plant for protection.

In the new flower bed, I anchored the newly arrived pink veronica speedwells on each side of ‘Earth Angel’, a pink and white romantic rose. I’m anticipating the vertical spikes of pink will annunciate the rounded pink in the center of the mostly white rose.

After resting on Sabbath yesterday, today, I checked on my new plants and put plant support stakes around my quickly sprouting peonies. I also mulched a bed and scrubbed the bird bath as well as the bird feeder. As if all the dreaming, planting, mulching, and fertilizing isn’t enough joy, I have a mama bird also busy this spring!

Happy gardening, ever-blooming, rose buds!

Optimal Growth

With spring approaching, I’ve been busy preparing my garden for optimal growth. My shed is packed with numerous bags of pine nugget mulch among a variety of garden tools, and I had a small retaining wall recently built in the corner bed to prevent further erosion from the rain. Additionally, tonight, after getting home from work, I quickly pruned and fertilized what I affectionately refer to as ‘The Pink Patch’. The pink patch is a narrow border bed between my home and my neighbor’s property. It hosts several pink rose bushes including ‘Sweet Drift’ and the narrow bed concludes with the hybrid tea, ‘Chicago Peace’ near the garden’s gate. Essentially, I have created a pink hedge – although, at the moment, there is no pink in the pink patch due to the natural effects of winter dormancy. Unfortunately, a stray cat thinks the pink patch is her litter box, which motivated me to prune and fertilize a tad earlier than I normally would because I am hoping the drift roses will unfurl and expand making it difficult for the neighborhood cat to use the rose bed as a restroom. Then again, the stray cat will likely move onto one of my many other flower beds.

‘Sweet Drift’ roses and ‘Chicago Peace’ on the left make up ‘The Pink Patch’ while the wild cane on the right is ‘Earth Angel’.
This bloom of Chicago Peace is past her prime but still a lovely blend of pinks, apricots, and lilac.
The culprit cat.

During this past Sunday’s beautiful sunshine, I created a new garden bed to house a rose bush that I planted last year but I underestimated her size. After seeing ‘Earth Angel’, a fragrant and romantic floribunda, produce long canes during her first year, I recently researched her size in gardening forums (sometimes the size stated on vendor’s websites is not the reality in all gardening zones). Turns out, this rose can get 5′ by 4′ not 3′ by 3′. Similarly, it’s been my observation from past gardens of mine that Sweet Drift’s height and width grow approximately double what the label claims. So, I dug a new hole elsewhere for Earth Angel, pruned her back, dug her up, and transplanted her, gambling that the weather forecast would continue to remain above freezing. Then I made a new bed around her using cardboard to cover the grass, put dirt on top of the cardboard, and spread a layer of mulch to top it all off. Through it all, I noticed the recently erected small retaining wall for the corner bed partially covered the base of two daisies. I subsequently had to transplant them for optimal growth as well, which reminded me that sometimes that is the case for us humans too. Selah.

What’s happening in your garden and the proverbial, spiritual garden of your heart? Is construction, pruning, fertilizing, transplanting, or all of the above needed for optimal growth this spring? Like, subscribe, and comment below.

Be ever-blooming, rose buds!

In March of 2024, a new flower bed and the small retaining wall in the corner bed “bloomed”.

Special Delivery ~ Sachets for Israel

After the terrorist attack against Israel on October 7, 2023, I made sachets filled with my homegrown fragrant roses, lavender, and love. I had hoped and prayed that somehow these sachets could reach the hands of those suffering in Israel. There was just one problem: I didn’t know a soul in Israel, nor specific organizations serving those directly impacted. I’ve never even been to Israel. Nevertheless, while pondering sentiments found in Isaiah 35 and listening to the daily news of Israel, I continued to fill the sachets with every last dried petal and lavender bud I harvested in my Maryland rose garden, thinking and praying somehow they could be used for something and someone special.

Many days, many tears, and many prayers pooled while my fragrant sachets awaited purpose in a pink, floral box. Long story short, I learned that a local rabbi would be visiting Israel on a solidarity mission and would be meeting with the families of the hostages. Various donations were welcomed. A smile formed across my face as I realized this could be an answer to my heart’s cry. The rabbi graciously took the remnants of my roses in delicate sachets to Israel. We thought it fitting to deliver my homegrown sachets into the hands of the hurting so that they may be reminded of the promises of God found in Isaiah 35. The promises for the anxious to be strong, to not fear, God is coming for Israel’s eventual requital, recompense, and victory! We talked about how smells and tangible items in our hands help alleviate anxiety and how many of the victims in Israel are from gardening communities (kibbutzim). How fitting to bring them fragrant rose and lavender sachets!

Complementary Clematis

Despite the oppressive August heat, along fences and trellises throughout my new garden located in Maryland 7b, three different clematis vines bloom. Next year, they, along with my roses, lavender, and other flowers, should pop with vibrant complementary colors!

Here’s a peak…

Jackmanii
Nestled between the purple and pink clematis is Summer Romance, a pink floribunda rose.
Dr. Ruppel
Niobe
The gold in the center of this Niobe will go nicely with the gold of Eternal Flame, a hybrid tea rose.

As the plants prosper and acclimate, there should be plenty of photo opportunities to capture the clematis and roses highlighting each other’s beauty like good friends or perhaps like a summer romance or eternal flame often do. 😉

Bring out the best in others! Highlight beautiful character in those planted near you. Be complementary! Be ever-blooming.

Happy Mother’s Day!

To all the hurting Mamas, these things I know for certain: wait on God, trust He’ll work it out, and know that  worshipping God changes everything…In His time and His way. I hope all the various types of Mamas and children of all ages have a meaningful, ever-blooming day despite life’s prickles.  God sees all and reveals truth. He also is writing your story and planting a garden of hope in you.

The rose buds featured in this photo symbolize my children.

Let My People Grow

Many forms of captivity may manifest in our lives beckoning our very own exodus. One such form of captivity I personally experienced was domestic and familial violence, that is violence or other forms of abuse committed towards me by a spouse as well as a close family member. Sometimes people who you thought would protect and provide for you choose to oppress you much to your shock and horror. Nevertheless, the story of Joseph’s family oppressing him (in the Bible) reminds me that God can use all circumstances for your good and the benefit of others as well. Later on, in Scripture, God hears the cries of the oppressed descendants of Joseph and his family and sends Moses to let God’s people go. Hence, the exodus story. After cultivating my exodus from such “pestilence”, God used gardening to help heal my heart and mind. With a heart full of gratitude towards God for graciously hearing my desperate prayers, I want to use my life to help cultivate growth in others who may still be awaiting an exodus of their own.

Due to these traumatic experiences and wanting to help others still in captivity, I became a certified domestic violence advocate that not only held faith-based support groups in my home for victims of domestic violence, but I also went on to found a non-profit that housed pregnant survivors of domestic violence and their children. Although I no longer house hurting women, I find myself still wanting to encourage those who are suffering. Perhaps my garden-themed writings throughout this site as well as the Ever-Blooming Roses magazines will plant seeds of hope and healing in those still in captivity.

Additionally, if you are a loved one of a person currently in a toxic and abusive relationship, it is critical you do the following to best help your loved one:

  1. Educate yourself on domestic violence. There are many variables involved and no easy solutions. Refrain from saying things like, “Why don’t you just leave him/her?” or exuding any form of victim-blaming. To learn more, click here http://stoprelationshipabuse.org/educated/avoiding-victim-blaming/
  2. Ears open. Understand victims of domestic violence are often gaslighted and bombarded with lies and negative comments from their abusers as well as ignorant, insensitive people. How you respond to the victim is a matter of life and death. The best thing you can do for your loved one is simply listen.
  3. Explore and Empower. You cannot fix their situation and you do not know what is best for the victim. They, however, know their circumstance and abuser best. It is important you help them explore all options and think through potential outcomes for better or worse and then empower them to make the best and safest series of decisions for themselves and their specific circumstances. Refrain from making decisions for them or forcing them to take action.
  4. Encourage the victim. Please be patient and encouraging as you listen to the many exhausting emotions, patterns, and variables the victim will experience. Be aware a victim of domestic violence often attempts to leave or indeed ends the relationship only to return on average 7 to 9 times before finally terminating the relationship. It is important you do not say anything negative about the abuser to the victim for she/he will not return to you for advice or help once she/he reconciles with their abuser. Leaving is a process, not an event. Also, be aware when a victim of domestic violence attempts to terminate the relationship, that is when the victim’s life, as well as her children or pets, are most in lethal jeopardy. She cannot “just leave”. By encouraging her to do so, it could be signing her death warrant – particularly if weapons are in the home.
  5. Evolve. Eventually, by planting seeds of love and hope in your loved ones as you implement these methods listed above, in time, the victims will hopefully free themselves from such pestilence or suffocating weeds when they believe it is safe to do so and evolve into overcoming, “ever-blooming roses” despite life’s prickly pain.

Also, it should be noted any gender can be abusive, and false or exaggerated accusations can be made to suit the agenda of another. The following graphics are not my own but are helpful as one learns to discern abusive dynamics.

“My life is an example to many, because you have been my strength and protection.” Psalm 71:7

It’s A ‘Miracle Grow for Roses’!

I tried ‘Miracle Grow for Roses’ fertilizer for the first time recently. My mini-roses are producing more than they ever did before! This particular fertilizer provides 18-24-16! Yes, this is a floating garden @ my sailboat. Soon we are moving from Texas to Maryland to be near family. We are shipping our personal items while putting the roses in the car with us as we relocate north. For me, these are my priorities #relationships #roses #religion .

If you are curious about these ‘miraculous’ blooms, this is what the fertilizer looks like. You just mix it with water in a watering can and follow directions with how much and how often. I used regular generic brand potting soil with some purchased bagged garden compost.

Happy Gardening! May we continue to be ‘Ever-Blooming’…